Making new friends is always fun... its like starting a new relationship but only not romantically... its nice to find out that there are people out there just as crazy as you and just as extreme as you... people say with romantic relationships opposites attract but i think that with friendships its people with similar personalities/views/goals/way they live their life... with making new friends there isn't that phase where both people are thinking "hmm does he like me?" , "am i leading her on?" , its very simple and can be fixed with one phrase... "oh we're just friends" =) then at that point even in a male/female friendship the male or the female can call up the other and ask if they want to see a movie, or if they could come hang out... things that would normally throw up red flags to us causing thousands of thoughts of "is he/she interested in me?!"... but they don't simply by the "oh we're just friends" phrase... now i'm not saying that friends don't ever end up dating eachother i actually believe that in every male/female close friend relationship that at one point in the relationship they will find eachother desireable it might be only for a second or for a month, it may not have happened yet or maybe it already has happened. its at these points in the friendship relationship that it has a chance to be thrown into the romantic relationship stage... but its what the person does with those feelings is what makes all the difference... thoughts of "how will this change our relationship", "is it worth losing them as a friend", so from the looks of it, it would seem that a friendship relationship is harder to maintain than a regular romantic relationship... (i'm not actually sure its just my thoughts right now) but who knows... but as for now just enjoy the people and friends around you... lol sorry went out side and its super nice now i can't think =p
till then...beFriendly...
Thursday, May 21, 2009
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